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What
is the difference between coaching, therapy and consulting?
| Comparison |
Coaching |
Therapy |
Consulting |
| Client status |
Client is creative, resourceful,
and whole. |
Client is broken, needs healing |
Client needs advice or help. |
| Who is the expert? |
Client is the expert |
Therapist is the expert. |
Consultant is the expert |
| Questions? |
Asks what questions |
Asks why questions |
Answers questions |
| Time focus |
Focus on present/future |
Focus on past/present |
Focus on /present/future |
| Agenda |
Client’s |
Therapist’s |
Consultant’s |
| Problem solving |
Client solves problem |
Problem is analyzed/may or
may not be solved, Why is it happening is analyzed. |
Consultant solves the problem. |
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Who
hires a coach and why?
People hire a coach because:
- They want more.
- They want to grow.
- They want to do things more easily.
- It's as simple as that. Coaches help a client get all three,
quickly.
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What happens when you hire a coach?
Many things, but the most important are:
- You take yourself more seriously.
- You take more effective and focused actions immediately.
- You stop putting up with what is dragging you down.
- You create momentum so that it's easier to get results.
- You set better goals that are more exactly what YOU want.
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Does the coach work on personal goals or business/professional
goals?
Both actually, especially since the line between personal and
business life is blurring. The coach is the only professional trained
to work with all aspects of you.
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Why does coaching work?
Coaching works for several reasons:
- Synergy between the coach and client creates momentum.
- Better goals are set -- ones that naturally pull the client
toward the goal rather than goals that require the client to push
themselves to the goal.
- The client develops new skills, and these skills translate
into more success.
| “Coaching is an action-oriented
partnership that concentrates on where you are today and how
you can reach your goals.” Time Magazine October 2000 |
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What qualifies a Coach?
A coach is a trained professional who is certified by a coaching
institution that is approved by the International Coach Federation
(ICF) which governs the standards, practices, ethics and guidelines
of the coaching profession. Diane Merriam, CPCC was certified through
the industry’s most rigorous training facility, The Coaches
Training Institute, an ICF accredited institution (www.thecoaches.com)
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Why
is coaching becoming so popular?
Coaching is becoming popular for several reasons:
- Many people are tired of doing what they think they "should"
do and are ready to do something special and meaningful for the
rest of their lives. One problem is that many can't see what this
is or, if they can, they can't find a way to reorient their life
around it. A coach can help them do both.
- People are realizing how simple it can be to accomplish something
that several years ago might have felt out of reach or like a
pipedream. A coach is not a miracle worker (well, sometimes they
are), but a coach does have a large tool kit to help the Big Idea
become a Reality. Fortunately, people now have time and resources
to invest in themselves in this kind of growth.
- Spirituality. If you tracked the phenomenal success of James
Redfield's Celestine Prophecy on the NY Times bestseller list
back in 1994, you got a sense of just how many people are willing
to look at, and consider, the notion of spirituality. Wow. Many
coaches are spiritually based -- even the ones who coach IBM and
AT&T. America is growing more spiritual very quickly. (Our
working definition of spirituality? "How connected you are
with yourself and others.") The coach helps the clients to
tune in better to themselves and to others.
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Please, give me some context about coaching...
A personal coach does just what an athletic coach or music teacher
does, only in a more complete and bigger way. A coach challenges
you and takes the time to find out what winning in life means to
you. A coach is your partner in living the life you know you can
accomplish, personally and professionally. A coach is someone to
hold you accountable for your life, to make sure you really do live
up to your potential.
Most people believe that "hard work and doing it on your
own" are the keys to finding the life, success, money, or happiness
that they seek. They believe that a price must be paid to attain
what they want, and often that price is poor health, not having
enough time to enjoy life, strained family relationships or lessened
productivity. The saddest part is that, even though this effort
may result in more of something, it is often not the something you
had in mind, and you end up back where you started, or worse, further
from your real intentions.
Athletes and performers know about this trap. They know they need
someone else, a trained someone else to help them set goals, discover
real needs, and work effectively toward ultimate goals of excellence.
So, they are willing to hire a coach or a teacher. No serious athlete
or musician would expect to progress very far without one.
| Coaching
has been synonymous with successful sports professionals for
a long time. But recently, it has become a strategy for many
busy professionals.” Business Week, November 2001 |
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What about people who are already doing
really well in their lives, why would they need a coach?
They might not need a coach. But it is helpful to find out: Are
they doing what they most enjoy? Are they tolerating anything? Is
life easy? Are they going to be financially independent within the
next 15 years? Do they have what they most want? We've discovered
that, often, people need to expect more out of their lives. A coach
can help in this process. Perhaps the New York Times Best selling
author, Ken Blanchard said it best: “No matter how successful
we are, we all need a coach to encourage, challenge and remind us
to live up to our full potential.”
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How can I find out if coaching will work for
me?
By simply contacting Diane Merriam by phone or email and signing
up for a complimentary, no-obligation, 30-minute coaching phone
call from the comfort of your home or office. It’s the best
way to get a “first-hand-feel” of how partnering with
a coach can move you powerfully forward in your life. 100%
guarantee that you will get value from your complimentary sample
session.
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Why
does phone coaching work so well?
Coaching on the telephone is the industry standard, with well
over 90% of all coaching sessions occurring via phone. Clients experience
many benefits including:
- Convenience: coaching via phone allows for no travel time to
get to appointments, ensuring that the sessions start on time.
Busy clients will only need to block out for their actual session
time vs. travel time etc.
- Focus: when coaching on the phone, clients notice they are
less distracted and experience an increased focus.
- Flexibility: coaching over the phone means a client can access
their coach from anywhere.
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How often will we have coaching sessions and
what does it cost?
DM COACHING SOLUTIONS offers several different
coaching packages that meet the specific needs of each individual
client. For more detailed information: see our “Programs/Services
page”.
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How long does coaching last?
Typically, clients sign a 4-month contract that reverts to a month-to-month
agreement. Some clients are ready to go solo within a few months,
while others stay indefinitely after they have experienced the positive
effect that coaching has had in all areas of their life.
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How
long before I see results?
Astoundingly, you can see results from the very first session.
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